Are you struggling to find a husband?
Believe me, sister, you’re not alone. Many single Muslimahs are facing the same challenge as you. So, please don’t feel there is something wrong with you! Due to Covid-19, fewer family gatherings and smaller social circles it has become more difficult to meet people. It’s a problem I’ve been exploring in great depth on Smart Muslima Podcast.
After speaking to many single Muslimahs, unfortunately, I realised this problem is being ignored. So, (after doing a lot of research during lockdown) in 2021 I published “Smart Single Muslimah” the book explores the plethora of reasons why Muslim women, like you are finding it difficult to find a spouse and I share honest practical Islamic advice which has helped many women (my inbox is full of positive feedback!).
Whilst conducting my research I found there is a genuine lack of pre-marriage guidance specifically for Muslim women. So to provide practical solutions I have written 2 Ebooks Marriage Advice for Single Muslimahs and Questions to Ask a Potential Spouse. I also created The Pre-marriage Course for Muslims.
Understanding coaching
We all need a little help sometimes, especially when it comes to relationships it can be pretty tough to figure out how to get from point A (identifying a goal) to point B (actually going after and achieving that goal). That's where a coach comes in. They can help you identify strengths and weaknesses and overcome obstacles holding you back. But who you should see depends on your issues and what you're hoping to achieve. So here’s what you need to know before you reach out.
Coaching is about helping people to identify the obstacles that keep getting in their way, assisting them with finding motivation and pinpointing any resistance to change. In that sense, a coach is an unbiased brainstorming partner—you’re still the one doing the heavy lifting.
Coaching can be therapeutic, but there are some major differences between life coaching and therapy. A coach looks at your present to help you create the future you desire, while a therapist looks at your past to help you manage your present. So while coaching is action-oriented, therapy is insight-oriented.
Meet your coach
Asalamualaikum my dear sister! I can’t wait to begin sharing my knowledge and experience with you. Inshallah, together we will work through the challenges you are facing and make a plan of action to help you find a God-conscious compatible husband. No more procrastinating. Let’s begin your marriage journey today!