Time for self-reflection
Self-reflection
When was the last time you sat down and did some serious self-reflection? Thought about your purpose in life. What you value the most in life. Everyone goes through a phase where they ask deep and meaningful questions.
I remember trying to find the answers to difficult questions when I turned 18. Questions like: How can I be sure Allah exists? Is the Quran really from Allah? If Islam is the truth then why am I picking and choosing which rules I follow?
Purpose in Life
Alhamdulilah, reflecting on my beliefs and actions at 18 was the best thing I ever did: it changed the direction of my life completely. I made a lot of dua, read a lot of Islamic books, and spoke to many knowledgeable people until I found the answers I was looking for. The fruit of my self-reflection was that I became convinced Islam was the truth and began to do my best to follow Islam in my daily actions. I finally understood the purpose of my temporary life was to worship Allah. Instead of solely fearing Allah I began to love Allah and appreciate all the blessings He gave me. I realised that the next life was eternal and I had to work hard to secure my place in Jannah.
Everyone’s self-reflection journey will be different, but it’s essential you embark upon it. I think now is the perfect time to do this. In the UK we are in a new lockdown. Globally, due to Covid 19 everyone’s lives have changed. We are all socialising less and so that means we do have more “alone” time. We have time to ponder on the ayah of the Quran:
"I have only created Jinn and people that they may worship me." (51-56)
We have time to focus on the hereafter (akhirah) while also focusing on the concept of being a servant to Allah. This focus shapes what direction your life will take. Remembering that you were created to serve and worship Allah helps to keep your life goals in perspective, preventing you from allowing your society or your desires to dictate your choices. It is a constant struggle to maintain a focus on the akhirah given the constant distractions of life. However, it is precisely this struggle against one's whims and impulses that each person must engage in as part of life’s test. It can be both motivating and reassuring to bear in mind that all your efforts to please Allah during the course of your life are witnessed by Him and will be rewarded by Him.
Self-Reflection Questions
How do you feel you can improve your consciousness and closeness to Allah in your life? Think of two practical things you can do.
Take care and have a wonderful week.
Farhat
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